How to get customers to wear masks

Two hair stylists in Springfield, Missouri developed coronavirus symptoms, but kept working.

The first stylist, we'll call her Stylist A, got a COVID test six days after symptoms first appeared. She continued serving clients while awaiting the results.

The second stylist, Stylist B, developed respiratory problems three days after Stylist A became ill. She continued to work alongside Stylist A until Stylist A tested positive for COVID.

Both Stylist A and B stopped working that same day, and Stylist B got tested. Two days later, Stylist B’s COVID test also came back positive.

The county health department traced the stylists' contacts:

  • Four members of Stylist A's household contracted COVID.

  • None of the Stylist B's personal contacts got the disease.

  • None of the 139 clients Stylist A and B served got sick.

How did no clients get sick, despite close personal contact with the infected stylists? An analysis from the CDC points to one factor: wearing masks.

Getting customers to wear masks is critical to stopping the spread of COVID.

Many customer service professionals have told me this can be difficult. Some customers forget, or claim masks are uncomfortable. Others just don't want to be told what to do.

This article describes how you can get more customers to comply.

I've dug into my own research on employee and customer behavior from writing Getting Service Right. You'll also hear from experts such as Professor Gavan J. Fitzsimons at Duke University and Susan Discroll, President of the Crisis Prevention Institute.

A stylist dries a client’s hair at a salon.

Employees must wear masks at all times

Customer service employees can set a positive example by wearing masks themselves. Masks are also an important part of employee safety, since many people contract the coronavirus from coworkers.

Many employees are too lax about wearing masks around each other. Once customers are gone, the masks come off.

I've witnessed maskless employees in retail stores, restaurants, and numerous other businesses. Construction workers, hotel housekeepers, firefighters, and TSA agents have all been seen congregating without masks.

The hair salon in Springfield enforced a strict mask policy with clients. Stylist A and Stylist B reportedly wore masks at all times while cutting hair, and clients were required to do the same.

Yet Stylist A and B took their masks off and interacted with each other once clients were gone. This is likely how Stylist B became infected.

Here’s another example.

The rental car employee and a coworker (you can just see the top of her head) aren't wearing masks, despite being close to another company's customers. They only wore their masks when customers approached the counter.

This behavior is dangerous.

Two rental car employees sit behind a counter without wearing masks.

Contact tracing in San Diego county, where I live, reveals more COVID exposures happen at work than any other setting. By far. The chart below shows data from June 5 through November 7, 2020.

Chart showing where people are exposed to COVID-19 before testing positive in San Diego County. 30.9% are exposed at work.

Why you need to have a strong mask policy

A clear and enforceable policy gives employees something to point to when asking a customer to wear a mask. It can also help set expectations before there’s ever an issue.

My wife, Sally, and I recently flew for the first time since the start of the pandemic.

We flew Alaska Airlines, in part because Alaska requires all passengers to wear masks. The policy explains when masks must be worn, what types of masks are allowed and not allowed, and that the policy covers all passengers over the age of two.

What's more important is Alaska enforces its mask policy.

Passengers must wear a mask to board their flight. Once on board, anyone who repeatedly refuses to wear a mask is literally given a yellow card.

It's a final warning before being banned from flying Alaska.

Consistent enforcement creates more consistent behavior. On my flight, I observed all Alaska employees and all passengers following the policy.

Meanwhile, a gate agent at a competing airline announced the airline’s mask policy before starting the boarding process. Just a few minutes later, that same gate agent allowed this maskless passenger to board a flight. Credibility gone.

A passenger who is not wearing a mask is about to board a flight.

How should you communicate your mask policy?

Sharing your policy with customers is just as important as having one. Use multiple methods of communication to repeat the message multiple times. It helps send a clear and consistent message that customers will be more likely to follow.

In my experience as an adult learning specialist, I've learned that two things can make a message particularly sticky: repetition and novelty.

  • Repetition: people are more aware of messages they hear often.

  • Novelty: people are more likely to pay attention to something unusual.

The Alaska Airlines mask policy was clearly explained multiple times before I boarded my flight, including when I:

  • Booked my ticket

  • Checked-in on the app

  • Got to the gate

  • Onboard the flight

The messages were also communicated in different ways. For instance, when I went to check-in for my flight on the app, I had to click a pop-up acknowledgement that I would wear a mask. There was signage at the gate reminding passengers about the mask policy, and the gate agent shared a verbal reminder.

Alaska also did a great job of providing "subtle nudges" to encourage customers to wear masks. Here are a few examples:

  • All employees wore masks.

  • Images on the Alaska website depicted people wearing masks.

  • Passengers were offered sanitizing wipes on board.

Think about how you can use the principles of repetition and novelty to encourage customers to wear masks.

  • Signage

  • Websites

  • Apps

  • Email and text confirmations

  • Employees


How do you prevent customers from getting upset about masks?

The masked, cheerful employee asked the unmasked customer, “Do you have a mask?” as soon as the customer entered the store.

You could tell the customer was slightly embarrassed. (After all, his face was clearly visible.) He apologized, left the store, and returned a moment later wearing a mask. The customer apologized again.

The employee told me this was a typical encounter. Most customers simply forget to wear their mask, and quickly put one one when reminded.

A few customers resist. It's important to approach these customers the right way to avoid a confrontation.

Gavan Fitzsimons is a professor of marketing and psychology at Duke University who has done extensive research on reactance. This is a psychological term that refers to a person getting upset when they feel someone or something is trying to control their behavior.

One of his more interesting research findings is that people are more likely to resist expert opinions when it contradicts their own beliefs.

"The best efforts I’ve seen at encouraging mask wearing have two key components," said Fitzsimons. "They provide the customer with a sense of agency, and provide a motivation for the customer to comply."

Agency means giving customers choices.

For example, a retail customer who doesn't have a mask can be given a few options to choose from:

  • You can give them a free mask to wear in the store.

  • They can opt for curbside pick-up.

  • The customer can choose home delivery (where available).

Fitzsimons recommends using positive messaging to enhance customer motivation. "Even when masks are required by law, framing that gives customers motivation and agency will enhance mask wearing substantially." 

An example would be thanking customers for doing their part to keep everyone safe. You can hear more from Fitzsimons in this short video.

(Side note: research shows that thanking customers can be more powerful than an apology in certain situations.)


What can you do if a maskless customer gets upset?

The most important thing to do is avoid a confrontation. Unfortunately, this is easier said than done because our natural instincts are to either argue with an angry customer or get away from them.

This short video explains how to recognize your own natural instinct and overcome it.

Susan Driscoll, President of the Crisis Prevention Institute, shared some helpful advice for soothing upset customers on a National Retail Federation podcast.

"Behavior influences behavior," said Driscoll. "You cannot control someone else's behavior. You can control your behavior."

Driscoll explained that an angry customer is experiencing a form of distress. "You have to understand first, that there is distress, and respond as you would to any distressed person. They can be attacking, but look at them as a distressed person."

One way to de-escalate the situation is to give the customer options. Driscoll suggested you might ask the customer if they'd prefer to step out of line and discuss the issue or speak with a manager instead.

Giving the customer options helps bring the customer back to a more rational state of mind.

One final suggestion is to review your company's security policy. The last thing you want is a physical altercation with a customer. All employees should know what to do if a customer becomes dangerous.

Take Action

There's a lot to digest here, so let's recap:

  1. Make sure all employees wear masks.

  2. Create a clear mask policy.

  3. Use repetition and novelty to communicate the policy.

  4. Give customers agency to get them to comply.

  5. Treat upset customers with empathy.

Finally, please leave a comment or contact me with questions. A few things I'd like to know from you:

  • What's been your experience with maskless customers?

  • What techniques have worked for you?

  • What techniques have not worked so well?


Erica Mancuso: Why customers should get the benefit of the doubt

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We've all experienced an outrageous customer.

Perhaps they lied or exaggerated. They might have been unreasonably angry. Others make a mistake and then blame you for the problem. Some are too obstinate to cooperate as you try to help them.

It's natural to be dismissive. Why should you have to serve someone who lies, throws a tantrum, blames you, and then refuses to be part of the solution?

Erica Mancuso has a counterintuitive suggestion. When customers are outrageous, we should give them the benefit of the doubt.

Mancuso is one of ICMI's top 50 thought leaders to follow on Twitter, and the Director of Offer Management at nThrive. We recently had a conversation about the importance of giving customers the benefit of the doubt.

Erica Mancuso quote: “Customers are not trying to wreck your day. They just want their issue resolved.”

Here are a few of the questions that Mancuso answered:

  • What does it mean to assume good intent?

  • Are there things that make it more difficult?

  • How do you get a customer to be more rational?

  • How do you get out of the mindset that customers are just being jerks?

  • Why is it important to assume a customer has good intentions?

You can watch the full interview or read the highlights below.

What does it mean to assume good intent?

"Most people when they go to work everyday, they're not trying to complain about everything," said Mancuso. "They're trying to get a job done."

She explained that customers contact customer service because they're frustrated about a problem. Their primary goal is to get the problem resolved and to feel better about it.

Mancuso shared that it's natural for customers to exaggerate when they're upset. "Sure, will they embellish things a little bit? Maybe. Haven't we all done that as customers at some point in time? We do."

Assuming good intent requires us to look beyond the customer's outrageous behavior and realize what's behind it.

"The client has good intentions," said Mancuso. "They're not trying to wreck my day. They just want the issue resolved."

See more at the :29 in the interview.

Are there things that make it more difficult to assume good intent?

Situations where a customer appears to be lying or obviously exaggerating can be especially difficult.

In my book, Getting Service Right, I shared a story about Paul, a night club manager who took a call from an unreasonable customer. The customer's credit card company had issued a fraud alert, and the customer angrily accused one of Paul's employees of stealing the card number. Paul knew this wasn't true, and he struggled with his instinctive reaction to dismiss the customer's concerns.

Mancuso described this as a common challenge. "We all tend to embellish things when we're frustrated."

It can be tempting to catch a customer in a lie, or point out how they're wrong. However, that tactic usually makes things worse, not better.

Go to 3:31 in the interview to hear more.

How do you bring a customer back to a more rational place?

Mancuso recommends asking specific questions to redirect the conversation.

For example, if a customer tells you something "never works" ask them specifically how many times the error occurred and what they were doing when they noticed it.

The key is to partner with the customer to gather facts and avoid accusing them of anything. "You do it in an empathetic way," said Mancuso. "You don't want the person on the other end to feel like an idiot."

Using specific questions echos similar advice contact center expert, Myra Golden, shared with me in our interview. Golden suggests starting with three closed-ended questions such as "Are you using a Mac or a PC?" to help the customer regain a more rational mindset.

Hear more on this topic at 5:02.

How do you get out of the mindset that customers are just being jerks?

Mancuso suggests that customer service professionals be willing to learn from their experiences. It's important to reflect on situations where a customer is exaggerating and think about better ways to handle them.

"Let's not shy away from these difficult conversations," said Mancuso. "They're going to help you grow as a professional."

One of the biggest obstacles is taking it personally when a customer directs their anger towards you. "You have to understand they're not angry at you, they're angry at the situation."

Not taking it personally can be easier said than done. Outrageous customers often trigger our fight or flight instinct, which is our natural urge to either argue with the customer or get away from them.

Go to the 8:12 mark to hear more.

Why is it important to assume a customer's intentions are good?

"You tend to be more empathetic when you assume good intent," said Mancuso. Empathy is a core customer service skill used to help customers feel better.

Mancuso explained that feelings are a powerful part of the customer experience. "We know that their overall experience with a company is one third what happens and two thirds how you make them feel."

Assuming good intentions often helps you wade through the customer's exaggerations and understand what's really bothering them. It's the mark of a true professional when you can regulate your own emotions and find a way to help the customer feel great at the end of the conversation.

Hear more at 11:23 in the interview.

Additional Resources

Mancuso shared some additional tips for serving upset customers in this article published by ICMI.

You can get even more ideas from my LinkedIn Learning course, Working with Upset Customers. You'll need a LinkedIn Learning subscription to view the entire program, but a 30-day trial is available.


How to support customers during the epidemic

A few Customer Service Tip of the Week subscribers have asked if I had any specific advice for serving customers during the COVID-19 epidemic.

I won't pretend to have any magic cure-alls. This is not an easy time to be in customer service. My best frame of reference comes from nearly 20 years ago when I managed a contact center during 9/11.

Based on that experience, and the lessons I’ve learned since then, the suggestions below can help.

A wary and uncertain customer service agent.

Keep Your Cool

We're all going through a lot right now. 

People are stressed out. Some people are panicking. Others are ill, or have family members who are sick. And some customers may choose to take out their frustrations on you. 

You'll be tempted to snap back. After all, you're going through a lot, too. Listening to upset customer after upset customer takes its toll.

This advice is easier to give than the follow: don't lose your cool. That will only make it worse. Here's a short video to help you identify that moment of truth.

Empathize with Customers

There's a surprising twist to empathy, which I'll get to in a moment. First, let's cover why empathy works. 

Empathy is defined as the ability to understand another person's feelings. 

So an empathetic response to a customer who lashed out starts with overcoming our instinctive desire to snap back (see above). We should instead treat the customer with caring, kindness, and compassion.

The challenge can be identifying the other person's feelings when you're struggling with your own. Here's an exercise I've done that's helpful:

Step 1: Consider why the customer is truly angry. For example, many customers today are worried about their health, their jobs, their kids, and even their normal way of life.

Step 2: Think about a time you felt the same way. That could be right now for many of us, since we're all experiencing some level of anxiety.

Step 3: Use that experience to identify with your customer's feelings.

I once witnessed a master class in empathy from an airline gate agent who somehow managed to soothe a drunken passenger who had missed her flight.

Okay, now to the surprising twist. Psychologists have discovered that making an effort to empathize with other people in distress can make us feel better.


Partner with Your Customers

Customers subconsciously want to know, are you with them or against them?

Something magically changes when customers feel like we're on their side. They drop their guard and relax a little. People become more pleasant and understanding.

I learned this technique from working with airline gate agents. A common problem occurred when a passenger tried to board with an oversized bag. The most successful agents used this technique:

  1. They stepped out from the counter and stood next to the customer.

  2. They used collaborative language to explain the situation, such as "Our overhead bins have limited space. Let's see if your bag will fit."

  3. They worked with the passenger to test their bag in the luggage sizer, and made helpful suggestions if the bag did not fit.

Can you find ways to show your customers that you're on their side? Here are some more suggestions that can help you.


Listen Carefully

Our listening skills can go out the window when we're stressed. We don't want to hear it, we're pressed for time, or we just don't know what to say.

Taking a moment to overcome this urge and really listen can make a world of difference.

In the days after 9/11, I found myself and my customer service team spending more time talking to customers. Sometimes, it was just listening to a quick story the customer wanted to tell. Other times, we had longer conversations about how people had been affected.

I see the same thing when I walk my dog at a local park. There's a regular group of dog owners, many of whom are also small business owners.

We maintain more than six feet of social distance while we chat, but we've had some good conversations lately about what we're experiencing, what we think will come, and what we plan to do about it. None of us know the answers, but I know we feel better just having someone listen.

Here are some exercises you can use to build your listening skills.


Additional Resources

There are a number of resources to help you learn even more about serving your customers during this challenging time.

Finally, here's a short video on how to defuse angry customers.